| Location | Heysham |
| Age | 74 years |
| Date of Birth | 4/1933 |
| Date of Death | 7/2007 |
| Visitors | 452 since 02/02/2008 |
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Name: Alan Derek O\'shaughnessy
Date of Death: 12th July 2007
Age: 74
lived in Heysham
Husband to Louise O\'shaughnessy, Dad to Andrew and lesley, Grandad to Ryan and caroline, and Brother to Peter and elizabeth.
He was a very loved gentleman and he was nown as alan or to the kids that lived near us he was nown as mr O witch i found funny for some reason.
He is really missed and allways will be.
xxx lve u grandadxxx
Uncle Alan
God saw u getting tired & a cure was not to be So he put his arms around u & whispered come with me. With tearful eyes we watched u pass away. Although we love u dearly, we could not make u stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us, he, only takes the BEST.
HI
Hey Uncle Alan,
I still find it weird walking past your house and not seeing you ther and sayin hi.
I Still regret to this day, ignoring you when i walked past just 2 days before you left us all.
Ive never had the chance to say sorry to you.
I still have my little memories of u tho.
like when u took me and Ryan to the Port to watch the ferry's come in.
I Really do wish i had 1 last chance to walk past and say hi and have a convo with you.
LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU LOADS
XX jorja XX
p.s Please look after aunty julie who resently joined you in the sky!!
Happy Anerversary....
Sorry it is 2 days late but not been able to get on the computer lol....
anyway happy anerversary dad went and put some flowers on your grave and gave it a clean. we are all missing you and we are getting bye but not properly.
nan has moved in with leslie so then she will be oki and there is someone too look after her 24/7 which is a good thing.
im going to see her on monday and she has bourght me a computer to do my g.c.s.e's on. anyway im going to have to go now because im going to have my tea.
p.s i really love you and i dont want you to forget that. lots of love ryan.x x xx x
nearly time
hi grandad its 2 weeks till ur birthday im going to go to your grave stone and give it a clean and put some birthday flowers there for you so hope you have a good day and im realy missing you badly
lve u allways
ryan x x xx x
In Sympathy
So sorry for your loss. My nan passed away last year and it feels like my whole world has been taken away. My thoughts are with you. God bless. I hope you find this poem of comfort, as I have done. x
What is Dying?
A ship sails and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon and someone at my side says 'She is gone'.
Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all. She is just as large now as when I last saw her. Her diminished size and total loss from my sight is in me, not in her.
And just at the moment when someone at my side says she is gone there are others who are watching her coming over their horizon and other voices take up a glad shout 'There she comes!'
That is what dying is. An horizon and just the limit of our sight.
Lift us up, Oh Lord, that we may see further.
Uncle Alan
Well Uncle Alan your now up there with me mum Maureen and bet your catching up on all the times you had and the laughs, I know for a few years I hardly saw you but you and Aunty Lou where the only relations I had after Mum had gone and I thank you for all your help... Sorry I didn't go to your funeral but I knew you and Aunty Lou understood that's why I went to the Chapel of Rest to see and you looked just like you had fallen asleep on your sofa like you used to..give me mum a hug from me.
heres the eulogy my mum had when she passed to the other side and a light as gone again now you have passed.
A LIGHT HAS GONE OUT
A light is from our household gone,
A voice we loved is stilled,
A place is vacant in our home,
That never can be filled.
Lonely is the home without you,
Life to us is not the same,
All the world would be like heaven,
If we could have you back again.
May the God of love and mercy,
Care for our loved one who is gone,
And bless with consolation,
Those left to carry on.
Love Wayne
Sending Thoughtful Wishes.
xDesideratax
Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
And remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
Be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
And listen to others,
Even the dull and the ignorant;
They too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
They are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
You may become vain and bitter;
For always there will be greater and lesser persons than Yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
It is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
For the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
Many persons strive for high ideals;
And everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
For in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
It is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years,
Gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe,
No less than the trees and the stars;
You have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
No doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God,
Whatever you conceive Him to be,
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
In the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
It is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy. x
Take care Alan xxx
hello!
hello grandad im really missing you and i hope you like memory site that i have done.
everyone at nans is missing you, and friends as well.
xxxlove you loadsxxx
xxxxlove Ryanxxxx
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